Nothing good or bad about being a virgin until marriage. As matter of fact their is no significant difference between the two when it comes to divorce and marriage problems (as one of my Prof's points out). BUT there is a problem when one or both people getting married have had sex with other people, but NOT the person they are about to marry. (There is a sort of person that has sex with one kind of person, but loves another and it is this type of person that is causing the problems. Furthermore, it is this group that has more marriage problems when compared to couples that have sex before marriage or remain virgins. Just thought I'd share.)
I tried to be that 1 in 10...I waited for the man that would become my husband :) We started dating in 1997 and didn't get married until 2002...that would have been a REALLY long wait. But, who's to say that if we'd waited on that we would have gotten married sooner?
I was gonna be one of those one in ten.. and sometimes it just doesn't happen, you know? *shrug* And I don't think there's anything wrong with that.. personally I think it's good for people to know they're sexually suited for each other before getting married or it could be a reeeeally uncomfortable marriage, you know what I mean?