yeah i agree. and if we dont have a destiny it just matters on who we are as a person. i dunno, alot of factors play into it. but i believe that love can last forever--but i also believe it can go to hell too. my head is not in the clouds.
i really don't know. alot of things happen in life that lead me to think maybe there is a destiny; for instance someone not going to the trade center on 9/11 because their kid had their first day of school or something, etc. is that destiny? is it destiny to have a gut feeling to pick up something at just the right time (such as a news paper and find out something just in time you might as well not have known) or make one turn on the way home instead of your usual way? etc. you get the point. or is stuff just nudging us in the right direction and we make our own choices ultimately? who knows.
but i will tell you something that i HAVE learned, and as cliche as this might sound, everything happens for a reason. the reason i know this is because many things have happened to me and i know that if one thing was slightly moved out of place in those events in my life then i would be somewhere else right now. who knows where, maybe a worse place, maybe better.
this goes into the whole theory of why scientists wouldnt want to go back in time, even to the age where dinosaurs were, etc: because if they step on something they aren't supposed to step on, or change something even slightly, then something in todays time can feel that effect. the scientists wont know what they're going back to. lol.