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Love and marriage.. [Feb. 26th, 2005|07:28 pm]
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If marriage means you fell in love, does divorce mean you climbed out?
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From: hymn
2005-02-26 08:37 pm (UTC)
not what i was going for but yeah!


actually, no. more like your nestled up in your cozy little love nest next to your love then all of a sudden you just seem to grow out of it. either rapidely (as in a bad divorce) or naturally (there are reasons but not catostrophes and its subtle).
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[User Picture]From: randomposting
2005-02-26 08:40 pm (UTC)
Do you think it's possible for love to be forever? As in a romantic love.
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From: m_buggie
2005-02-26 08:43 pm (UTC)
*raises hand slowly*
I do.
:)
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[User Picture]From: randomposting
2005-02-26 08:44 pm (UTC)
I hope you're right. :)

I think it depends on the person and each of our destiny.

Assuming we have one.
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From: hymn
2005-02-26 09:06 pm (UTC)
yeah i agree. and if we dont have a destiny it just matters on who we are as a person. i dunno, alot of factors play into it. but i believe that love can last forever--but i also believe it can go to hell too. my head is not in the clouds.
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[User Picture]From: randomposting
2005-02-26 09:08 pm (UTC)
Do you believe some people have destinys and others do not?
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From: hymn
2005-02-26 09:18 pm (UTC)
i really don't know. alot of things happen in life that lead me to think maybe there is a destiny; for instance someone not going to the trade center on 9/11 because their kid had their first day of school or something, etc. is that destiny? is it destiny to have a gut feeling to pick up something at just the right time (such as a news paper and find out something just in time you might as well not have known) or make one turn on the way home instead of your usual way? etc. you get the point. or is stuff just nudging us in the right direction and we make our own choices ultimately? who knows.

but i will tell you something that i HAVE learned, and as cliche as this might sound, everything happens for a reason. the reason i know this is because many things have happened to me and i know that if one thing was slightly moved out of place in those events in my life then i would be somewhere else right now. who knows where, maybe a worse place, maybe better.

this goes into the whole theory of why scientists wouldnt want to go back in time, even to the age where dinosaurs were, etc: because if they step on something they aren't supposed to step on, or change something even slightly, then something in todays time can feel that effect. the scientists wont know what they're going back to. lol.



have i bored you?
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[User Picture]From: randomposting
2005-02-26 09:23 pm (UTC)
Not at all.

You've actually opened up the possibility for a whole bunch of other conversations.

What about the theory of alternate universes?

Where each of your choices are played out somewhere else by an alternate version of you.

It's a lot to think about. I'm not sure how I feel about it...
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From: hymn
2005-02-26 09:20 pm (UTC)
PS: i really think the place i would be in would be worse
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From: hymn
2005-02-26 09:21 pm (UTC)
and the simple reason of that is because of lover, tim. i dont think i would have ever known him. and i know that whatever hardships we face in the future its better WITH him and knowing him.



and oh my god i sound like one of those girls who i hate! kill me now
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From: hymn
2005-02-26 09:05 pm (UTC)
at the risk of sounding absoloutly niave; yes. yes, yes, yes.
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[User Picture]From: randomposting
2005-02-26 09:06 pm (UTC)
Very cool.

Do you think it's possible for everyone to have it?
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From: hymn
2005-02-26 09:07 pm (UTC)
no.
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[User Picture]From: randomposting
2005-02-26 09:19 pm (UTC)
So what determines the possibility of you being that person?

Just chance?
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From: hymn
2005-02-26 09:23 pm (UTC)
psychology, the right person, etc.
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