My sister says divorce is waking up..so I guess falling in love is falling asleep. ::shrugs:: I'll go w/ her view..she's experienced both sides. :)

I've experienced neither. just been a rather avid metaotor on both sides for different people.

*laughs* That would be a good assumption. Right now between my parents 'love is a battlefield' and the divorce is like climbing out of a foxhole 6 feet under -_-

I love your lips

Divorce = Disillusioned

So to be married you are under the spell of an illusionist?

Divorce is a cheat.

What if you were cheated ON?

I think so. But I don't think Marrage means you fell in love, because marrage is just a waypoint in the bigger picture.

The bigger picture being the game of life?

LOL i guess so!

^_^ falling in love hurts more than coming out.

Oh, I disagree.

Falling in love is great.

It's when it's necessary to climb out that your heart has been broken, or you've done the breaking.

it means you were either gently (over time) or harshly pushed out

Kind of like off a building. There's a building of love, and marriage, and you have to try and climb it to get married.. and then if you don't win immunity you're pushed off and down you fall back into the sea of singledom?

I prefer to think divorce means you just sort of stepped in love and got it all over your shoes.

Ooh. I like that. Does how long you're married denote the smell of what's on the bottom of your shoe?

that is the perfect icon for you to use.

:) I've always liked that one.

For me though, I think I must go with my random fairy flitting from journal to journal.

i don't think you "fall" in love.
LOVE IS A CHOICE of unselfishness and committing your life to sommeone.
divorce can also be a choice of unselfishness. knowing that you are not willing to committ youself and sacrifice everthing you have for this person means you don't want the other to live in hell becuz you made a promise you know you just can't keep.

What about if you marry without any of those intentions?

Divorce is most like the governor calling and issuing a pardon five seconds before the electricity begins to flow. (And Deadwood may be the best thing on tv right now.)

So.. if you didn't divorce that person, someone would die in the relationship?

- And yes. It's pretty damn good. I'm a fan of 24 as well.

Ah hell, I'm falling. You shouldn't have made that post! :)

Awww. Too late. I can't take it back. Do you have a parachute at least?

I'm going to tell you a joke thathas little/nothing to do with your post.

"A man walks into a bar with three little ducks, following in his wake. He sits down on a barstool, places each duck up on the bar, and regales the bartender with stories about these ducks being talking ducks. Then, after a bit, the guy asks the bartender to watch the ducks for a bit while he goes the little boys' room. The bartender, doubting the talking ability of these ducks (they haven't said a thing so far), says to the first one, "What's your name, little duck?" To his surprise, the duck responds.
"My name's Louie."
Without breaking stride, the bartender asks, "So how was your day, Louie?"
"Oh, just great. I've been in and out of puddles all day," came the response.
Turning to the second duck, the bartender asks, "What's your name, little duck?"
"My name's Huey."
"So how was your day, Huey?" the bartender asks.
"Oh, just great. I've been in and out of puddles all day," replied Huey.
The bartender turns to the third duck and asks, "So you're Dewey, right?"
To which the ducks says, "No, my name's Puddles, and don't ask about my fucking day!"


Fin.

Hahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!

That's great. Thanks. :)

So it's kind of like the wheel of fortune?